Relationship and Self
While we try to search and search for the One, we judged, sucrutinoused and filtered out the potential bad partners. The question would be who is truly "The One". I see that there is no one perfect for anyone else but ourselves. In a mathematical equation; 1 + 1 = 2. And 2 is not a good number when a ideal mesh of a relationship is described by the word: Wholesome.
In the process of random reading, I have picked up an excellant book, How to avoid marrying a Jerk. This is the book that provides a RAM model for the road to a better self discovery leading to a sucessful and healthy marriage. The title is a little tacky but the content is astonishingly food for thoughts.
This book has really led me to think whether sometimes in our search for my half to create a whole, was really a self reflection period that needs to happen first. By truly understanding yourself, your needs, your recurring relationships patterns then can one enters a wholesome relationship.
While we try to search and search for the One, we judged, sucrutinoused and filtered out the potential bad partners. The question would be who is truly "The One". I see that there is no one perfect for anyone else but ourselves. In a mathematical equation; 1 + 1 = 2. And 2 is not a good number when a ideal mesh of a relationship is described by the word: Wholesome.
In the process of random reading, I have picked up an excellant book, How to avoid marrying a Jerk. This is the book that provides a RAM model for the road to a better self discovery leading to a sucessful and healthy marriage. The title is a little tacky but the content is astonishingly food for thoughts.
This book has really led me to think whether sometimes in our search for my half to create a whole, was really a self reflection period that needs to happen first. By truly understanding yourself, your needs, your recurring relationships patterns then can one enters a wholesome relationship.
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